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Ready to Comply

A personal exploration of some of the reasons — especially the intersection of trauma and autism — why fictional characters and worlds have outsized meaning to some adults

Writing “The Room”

A specific example of using fanfiction to work through trauma, as described in Ready to Comply

The Room

The Bucky Barnes fanfiction in question (trigger warning: heavy trauma content)

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I do not use the word ‘crazy’ lightly

I came of age as a mental health professional in San Francisco, arguably the most politically conscious city in the United States. Since then I’ve spent a decade on campus at a large university serving students in the 21st century. I’m aware that some people consider the word “crazy” to be ableist, i.e. a slur…

Charlie the Onion

Sometimes there was a problem with souls in the household. Mr. Bear and the dolly bought a white onion and left it sitting on a shelf for too long. It was intended for dinner one night. It was intended for a stir fry. But they forgot it, ignored it too long. Her Katness noticed it…

Welcome to The MetaFiction Cycle

The MetaFiction Cycle is a trilogy of interlocking books that I’ve been working on for several years, about the influence that stories have had on my life for good and for ill, and what I’ve learned in my calling as a therapist, a professional witness to the stories of others, over the last two decades.